Like Armose said, everyone likes to be held....just cause your 20 doesn't mean anything...we all want to feel safe. You are feeling some abandonment issues...which, depending on your situation is completely normal. You are growing up, possibly heading off on your own with work or college. It is a scary new place to be...so, don't beat yourself up.
Don't go flocking into the wrong dudes arms!!! Girls tend to mix that up, think they are getting into intimacy, when, all the dude really wants is to bang you, go find someone else.
Slow your roll...don't be in a hurry to fix anything, but, know that what you are experiencing is NORMAL. There should be a place you can go, get a hug...and NOTHING else!
Is it normal that I really want to be held?
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Like Armose said, everyone likes to be held....just cause your 20 doesn't mean anything...we all want to feel safe. You are feeling some abandonment issues...which, depending on your situation is completely normal. You are growing up, possibly heading off on your own with work or college. It is a scary new place to be...so, don't beat yourself up.
Don't go flocking into the wrong dudes arms!!! Girls tend to mix that up, think they are getting into intimacy, when, all the dude really wants is to bang you, go find someone else.
Slow your roll...don't be in a hurry to fix anything, but, know that what you are experiencing is NORMAL. There should be a place you can go, get a hug...and NOTHING else!