People will recreate trauma of the past to try and master it. The problem is that they just fall into the same pits and end up in a vicious cycle. If older men is your thing I would guess that you were sexually abused by an adult when you were a child.
If not that then you are subconciously trying to sabotage your relationship with your bf because your family of origin (parents) didn't show you how to have a healthy relationship. Maybe there was a lot of fighting or harsh punishments or verbal/emotional abuse.
You didn't really give a lot of info so its hard to tell....but let me know how I did.
IIN that I really want my bf's dad?
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People will recreate trauma of the past to try and master it. The problem is that they just fall into the same pits and end up in a vicious cycle. If older men is your thing I would guess that you were sexually abused by an adult when you were a child.
If not that then you are subconciously trying to sabotage your relationship with your bf because your family of origin (parents) didn't show you how to have a healthy relationship. Maybe there was a lot of fighting or harsh punishments or verbal/emotional abuse.
You didn't really give a lot of info so its hard to tell....but let me know how I did.