Sorry to hear that mate but yea its very normal to want to be straight as that is what's considerd "normal" but at the end of the day you are gay and that wont change. Speaking as a gay person, it's not being gay that is the problem, it is the people around you that make it a problem. Your bf needs to realise that pushing you away will not make things any better, just worse. In a time when you're both feeling low becuse of other people is the time you need each others support the most and having close friends that accept you both is imporant also, a true friend would never judge you for things you cannot control.
If you were straight though there would still be problems, life is hard no matter your sexuality.
I'm starting to realise that now after reading some of these comments. I'm still working on my relationship with my boyfriend, and it's going okay now. His parents don't visit us anymore, and I prefer that.
That's true, the problems would be different but still problems to me.
IIN that I really don't want to be gay?
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Sorry to hear that mate but yea its very normal to want to be straight as that is what's considerd "normal" but at the end of the day you are gay and that wont change. Speaking as a gay person, it's not being gay that is the problem, it is the people around you that make it a problem. Your bf needs to realise that pushing you away will not make things any better, just worse. In a time when you're both feeling low becuse of other people is the time you need each others support the most and having close friends that accept you both is imporant also, a true friend would never judge you for things you cannot control.
If you were straight though there would still be problems, life is hard no matter your sexuality.
I hope everything turns out ok for you both.
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I'm starting to realise that now after reading some of these comments. I'm still working on my relationship with my boyfriend, and it's going okay now. His parents don't visit us anymore, and I prefer that.
That's true, the problems would be different but still problems to me.
Thank you, and I wish the same to you.