I think it is normal to not want to be gay if you are in a society where being gay is seen as a negitive thing. Just as you wouldn't want to be short if society really looked down on being short, but just as with height, you can't change who you are.
If people give you a hard time, you shouldn't have to "get used to it" as it is a reflection of how terrible they are, not you. You should, however, accept it as it is who you are.
Your boyfriend shouldn't be taking his anger out on you, even if it was your idea for him to come out. You should talk to him, and possibly accept some of the blame since it was both of you who made the decision. You should also decide, probably after talking to him, if you guys will stay together. If you are unsure, give it some time after you guys talk.
Thats a good comparison and yeah that's what causing the problem.
I'll try, maybe I'll keep going the lgbt support groups.
Yeah I had a chat with him and apologized for making him come out to his family. He's a bit better now, but he isn't talking that much to me like he used to, and not too aggressive but still a bit assertive with his words and actions.
IIN that I really don't want to be gay?
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I think it is normal to not want to be gay if you are in a society where being gay is seen as a negitive thing. Just as you wouldn't want to be short if society really looked down on being short, but just as with height, you can't change who you are.
If people give you a hard time, you shouldn't have to "get used to it" as it is a reflection of how terrible they are, not you. You should, however, accept it as it is who you are.
Your boyfriend shouldn't be taking his anger out on you, even if it was your idea for him to come out. You should talk to him, and possibly accept some of the blame since it was both of you who made the decision. You should also decide, probably after talking to him, if you guys will stay together. If you are unsure, give it some time after you guys talk.
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Thats a good comparison and yeah that's what causing the problem.
I'll try, maybe I'll keep going the lgbt support groups.
Yeah I had a chat with him and apologized for making him come out to his family. He's a bit better now, but he isn't talking that much to me like he used to, and not too aggressive but still a bit assertive with his words and actions.