Maybe it was that you werent confident enough to think that you could get the feminine type
So you went with what you could get which was the guys who were into sports, who happened to be muscular?
Because you could relate to them better?
Im just guessing here
But you said you dated a girl before, so i dont know
Maybe you were just afraid to try anything sexual with her?
It makes sense though since your attracted to masculinity, that you would find girls a turn off, femininity anyway, because girls are naturally feminine
thats why you find flat chested girls somewhat attractive, because they resemble masculinity, and thats what your apparently attracted to right now
so it makes sense
your saying you used to be attracted the feminine type and now your attracted to the masculine type
which proves that your attraction CAN change
i might have a idea about what is going on, im not 100% sure, but are you really masculine yourself?
I don't I just slowly lost interest in them. My confidence is kinda average low, but only because people over complement me too much on anything I do or any facial features I have, to the point that I think I'm not actually attractive and they're just being over supportive. Because they are the lgbt, a very supportive group.
I also noticed some feminine guys were intimated by me if I asked them if they were gay, because they would often mistaken me for a straight guy looking to bash some guys or some other stupid thought. And I can't flirt for shit, only joke around.
So yeah I guess I went with what wouldn't run away from me. Or that I could get more easily, since masc usually like to date other masc (lgbt stereyotype).
Yeah that makes sense. I find my self to be between neutral and masculine. My bf's is like the Alpha wolf he's scared/hates butterflies why I find them to be attractive bugs. When I got him flowers for valentine's day last year he told me to get him something he can use. And he can't clean anything and is shit at cooking. Plus he's a gym freak likes to focus on lifting weights, while I'm a jogger and lift occasionally.
Yeah I have no idea if I'm attractive. I could get girls really easily in high school, when I was trying to turn my self straight. But I thought it had to do because I was a basketball player. This one chick even asked me out but she had a bf on the swim team that I knew of so I rejected her.
Yeah maybe I sounded to serious and asking too soon when I just met them.
Yeah maybe I should try flirting instead of asking. Hopeful I don't make a fool of my self.
Yeah that's the rarest pairing I've seen and now I know why.
Haha yeah I guess.
Do you really think so? I could try again after I break up with my bf. I dont want to deal with him and his family anymore. They're starting to make me hate my self.
Haha well thanks, who knows what it is that attracts them.
Yeah why not, first time for everything.
Yeah if I do leave my bf I will. So far he's okay again. Because I apologized for making him come out to his family. He's not too aggressive now or angry at me.Only a tiny bit assertive. And he promised to not let his family over again. But we'll see what happens.
IIN that I really don't want to be gay?
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Maybe it was that you werent confident enough to think that you could get the feminine type
So you went with what you could get which was the guys who were into sports, who happened to be muscular?
Because you could relate to them better?
Im just guessing here
But you said you dated a girl before, so i dont know
Maybe you were just afraid to try anything sexual with her?
It makes sense though since your attracted to masculinity, that you would find girls a turn off, femininity anyway, because girls are naturally feminine
thats why you find flat chested girls somewhat attractive, because they resemble masculinity, and thats what your apparently attracted to right now
so it makes sense
your saying you used to be attracted the feminine type and now your attracted to the masculine type
which proves that your attraction CAN change
i might have a idea about what is going on, im not 100% sure, but are you really masculine yourself?
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I don't I just slowly lost interest in them. My confidence is kinda average low, but only because people over complement me too much on anything I do or any facial features I have, to the point that I think I'm not actually attractive and they're just being over supportive. Because they are the lgbt, a very supportive group.
I also noticed some feminine guys were intimated by me if I asked them if they were gay, because they would often mistaken me for a straight guy looking to bash some guys or some other stupid thought. And I can't flirt for shit, only joke around.
So yeah I guess I went with what wouldn't run away from me. Or that I could get more easily, since masc usually like to date other masc (lgbt stereyotype).
Yeah that makes sense. I find my self to be between neutral and masculine. My bf's is like the Alpha wolf he's scared/hates butterflies why I find them to be attractive bugs. When I got him flowers for valentine's day last year he told me to get him something he can use. And he can't clean anything and is shit at cooking. Plus he's a gym freak likes to focus on lifting weights, while I'm a jogger and lift occasionally.
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Hmmm
what if it really just is that you look good?
Ohhh I see what your saying, yea
It doesnt matter if they try to be supportive anyway, you can still have lots of confidence
Aww, sounds like they obviously didnt understand where you were coming from
It was either their own misinterpretation, or it was how you sounded
Im sure you could flirt if you really wanted to :)
Eh I just say it depends on the person
There are actually feminine guys who like to date masculine guys
So it does sound like you are a little feminine
I just think you should try out feminine guys again
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Yeah I have no idea if I'm attractive. I could get girls really easily in high school, when I was trying to turn my self straight. But I thought it had to do because I was a basketball player. This one chick even asked me out but she had a bf on the swim team that I knew of so I rejected her.
Yeah maybe I sounded to serious and asking too soon when I just met them.
Yeah maybe I should try flirting instead of asking. Hopeful I don't make a fool of my self.
Yeah that's the rarest pairing I've seen and now I know why.
Haha yeah I guess.
Do you really think so? I could try again after I break up with my bf. I dont want to deal with him and his family anymore. They're starting to make me hate my self.
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omg lol, a girl actually trying to cheat on her bf
gtfo haha, of course who knows what their relationship was but still, see you must be good looking or something lol
yea definately could be
haha whicheva way works! :) you can do it
if you dont succeeded the first time just keep trying again and again
that sounds awesome! yea you should definately give them another shot
well hey if you want to break up thats your choice
then yea you definately dont have to deal with that
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Haha well thanks, who knows what it is that attracts them.
Yeah why not, first time for everything.
Yeah if I do leave my bf I will. So far he's okay again. Because I apologized for making him come out to his family. He's not too aggressive now or angry at me.Only a tiny bit assertive. And he promised to not let his family over again. But we'll see what happens.
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im telling you though muscular guys really do attract some of them
i would say im feminine myself ;P but im not attracted to muscle
just depends on each person
awesommmeeeeeeee yeah go for it! :) you sound like a cool guy to me but i dont date guys even though im bisexual :P
thats good, and if anything ever happens, you always got new bisexual boys to try ;3