jesus christ, love. I know it's scary, but eventually you'll grow into it. its completely normal to be scared of yourself but just give it some time. don't put yourself in a box. you'll figure it out eventually, don't pressure yourself, just live, and it'll all come together.
If you say so, it's just living this way even with another guy it's hard. Especially if the life style it self is angering people who are suppose to support me. And there not that many of us too on top of that to interact with. And other I know who are gay aswell I can't relate to at all.
dude, just because you don't relate to other gay people doesn't alienate you. sexual attraction is not the only thing that defines someone. I think the place you live is probably very homophobic by the sounds of it. try moving to a more accepting environment, and the people that are supposed to be supporting you aren't worth your time. get new people in your life. and if you're looking for something that you have in common with other gay people, heres one; you're both gay. you've both shared the same problems with being gay, and I just think you're not trying hard enough. best wishes
Yeah people start hanging out with me less or drop me when they find out I'm gay. I don't even tell them, they just figure it out since my bf's likes to tail around me a lot.
Yeah I guess I can build of a friendship of just being gay being our common thing we share. I'm just missing hanging out with people who have similar interest to me. And I guess those type of people are usually homophobic.
IIN that I really don't want to be gay?
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jesus christ, love. I know it's scary, but eventually you'll grow into it. its completely normal to be scared of yourself but just give it some time. don't put yourself in a box. you'll figure it out eventually, don't pressure yourself, just live, and it'll all come together.
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If you say so, it's just living this way even with another guy it's hard. Especially if the life style it self is angering people who are suppose to support me. And there not that many of us too on top of that to interact with. And other I know who are gay aswell I can't relate to at all.
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dude, just because you don't relate to other gay people doesn't alienate you. sexual attraction is not the only thing that defines someone. I think the place you live is probably very homophobic by the sounds of it. try moving to a more accepting environment, and the people that are supposed to be supporting you aren't worth your time. get new people in your life. and if you're looking for something that you have in common with other gay people, heres one; you're both gay. you've both shared the same problems with being gay, and I just think you're not trying hard enough. best wishes
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Yeah people start hanging out with me less or drop me when they find out I'm gay. I don't even tell them, they just figure it out since my bf's likes to tail around me a lot.
Yeah I guess I can build of a friendship of just being gay being our common thing we share. I'm just missing hanging out with people who have similar interest to me. And I guess those type of people are usually homophobic.
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best of luck, my friend. don't waste your time on homophobes.