IIN that I really don't want to be gay?

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  • Attraction isn't something we consciously control.

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    • i used to be straight

      never liked dick

      was turned off by it

      later i saw cute feminine boys in porn

      my perspective changed from thinking about boys, which would turn me off, to thinking about them in a feminine way

      my perspective changed, and then i became open to them

      (curious)

      and i got into them only because they were feminine

      i still like feminine parts of either girls or boys, so yes that has never changed

      but thanks to me being open to feminine boys, my thoughts have changed

      i know its just mainly in porn, which is where the most feminine of boys has come from

      society is usually mostly masculine, with the guys being masculine

      porn has allowed a doorway of open-minded into something that rarely occurs in society

      sure it is possible for guys to be feminine, but thats not usually how it works

      except in boys, not men

      ive never changed my attraction to femininity, but im more open-minded about the same sex

      porn can make more people open-minded about being gay, and the elites are trying to make guys more feminine

      which is not natural. this is not how society is supposed to be

      but still, if i wanted to change my attraction, i probaley still could

      so your saying, even though i dont like big muscular dudes, i cant start being attracted to them if i try?

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      • Uhh, if you can start being attracted to big muscular dudes if you want to, that means you've always been attracted to them...you're just repressing it, which is common among homophobic bigots. The anger and hatred, which you disguise with this "it's not natural" bullshit, is a result of the jealousy you feel about them accepting who they are and the anger at yourself for feeling that way.

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        • thats retarded

          stop being retarded

          IM NOT attracted to muscular guys, but what if my attraction changes?

          why is it impossible for my attraction to change?

          why?

          apparently the op of this question has changed his attraction to feminine guys, to masculine guys

          why is this impossible, and why is this such a impossibility to your mind?

          its not that im repressing it, omfg

          thats like saying you're secretly into banging dogs, and if your not your just repressing your attraction

          that argument is retarded as dogshit

          attraction can change

          end of story

          and btw its just not natural if you understand the ying yang of attraction

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    • it is feeling i agree with you

      but you can choose

      just like you can choose not to drink soda even though you may like it

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      • Do you realize you just proved your idiotic "it's a choice" post completely wrong?

        Being gay isn't about what you do, it's how you feel. And you just admitted that you don't choose how you feel or what you like, you can only choose what you do about it. But whether you do it or not is irrelevant, the feelings are still there. If you're attracted to your own gender, whether you act on it or not, you're gay. (Or bi if you're attracted to both, obviously.) That means, by your own admission, being gay isn't a choice.

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        • i understand its both feeling, and at the same time, it is also what you choose

          just because you get horny to something, doesnt mean you have to act on it is what im saying

          with my analogy

          who says its not a choice either?

          why can i not choose my attraction? i am my own person. i make my own decisions

          i used to be straight

          im bisexual now

          its a choice

          explain that

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      • Someone hack your account or did you overdo the alcohol at a Superbowl Party?

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        • are you saying that you can choose is ridiculous?

          or my analogy?

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