Is it normal that i really don't enjoy giving head?

I'm 18 and my boyfriend loves receiving it, but I hate giving it. We've been together for 2 years and there's always a time when he starts asking for head consistently because it's been awhile. I seriously get so annoyed by it and he knows it, but I guess he figures asking is worth a shot. He knows I hate everything about it: the motion, the smell, the taste, the fact my neck aches a minute into it, but I'm in for another FIVE.

He doesn't go down on me because I don't have an interest for it. I just don't know why he constantly asks me when he knows I hate it. I wonder how he gets pleasure from something I would rather never have to do again. Is it normal?

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62% Normal
Based on 13 votes (8 yes)
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  • pixie_dust

    U r too young to know how to enjoy sex. Plus he's a noob for asking for it. A person gives oral sex when they want to unless ur a hooker!

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  • Ijustknowimweird

    Let him go down on you. The you will know how it feels and wont mind giving him the same amount of pleasure

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  • here2help

    if he doesnt clean your dick for you then you should tell him to fuck off

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  • Here'sTheDeal~

    i hated giving head to my old boyfriend for the same reasons you do.But that changed when i started dating someone else. Now with my current b/f i don't mind it, in fact i like giving head to him. i like that he feels so much pleasure from it, you know? And he's not selfish about it.(hope that helps)

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  • Its normal that he wants head and you dont like giving it. It sounds like youre just not sexually compatable. Sometimes people can be emotionally compatable but not sexually compatable.

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    In my opinion you have a big problem.
    Any man likes it a lot. Some guys even like it more than anything. It depends of a state of mind at the moment.
    He must like you a lot otherwise he would have left since a long time and look for someone without such a huge limit.
    If you like him try to change that before he finds someone else.
    To many limits in bed isn't good for a healthy relationship.

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