not every young single mother is the way you describe them to be though. what you're describing is just irresponsibility and ignorance. depending on the culture and ethnicity it is perfectly normal for some women to have children at a very early age (the women who are over 25 and unmarried without children are actually the outcasts so to speak). Not every young single mother is irresponsible and ignorant. Some have the means to have a child and choose to have one with their partners. If they break up later on or if they separate that's a different problem. No one expects to divorce or break up with someone, most people really think their relationship is forever. you have to remember that in terms of history, going to college and having a career are fairly new developments for women. and as for people who work shitty jobs, some of them don't have a choice. i'm an unemployed student (i can't find a job anywhere, i've applied for a wide variety of jobs from sales girl at an upscale jeans flagship store to cleaning/janitorial positions and gotten rejected) so i know how hard it is out there with all of the competition trying to find jobs. so if you're asking if it's normal to avoid irresponsible people then yes, that's very normal. however it's not normal to generalize and stereotype a whole group of people solely based on a few experiences.
Is it normal that I purposely avoid friendship with single mothers?
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not every young single mother is the way you describe them to be though. what you're describing is just irresponsibility and ignorance. depending on the culture and ethnicity it is perfectly normal for some women to have children at a very early age (the women who are over 25 and unmarried without children are actually the outcasts so to speak). Not every young single mother is irresponsible and ignorant. Some have the means to have a child and choose to have one with their partners. If they break up later on or if they separate that's a different problem. No one expects to divorce or break up with someone, most people really think their relationship is forever. you have to remember that in terms of history, going to college and having a career are fairly new developments for women. and as for people who work shitty jobs, some of them don't have a choice. i'm an unemployed student (i can't find a job anywhere, i've applied for a wide variety of jobs from sales girl at an upscale jeans flagship store to cleaning/janitorial positions and gotten rejected) so i know how hard it is out there with all of the competition trying to find jobs. so if you're asking if it's normal to avoid irresponsible people then yes, that's very normal. however it's not normal to generalize and stereotype a whole group of people solely based on a few experiences.