Your situation is abnormal but understandable. Me personally....i'd keep it up till she graduates. Something eventually is going to give. She is your kid however he is your mate and equal. You're taking the impact mostly. They are too but its so they can stay and have life as they know it so they sacrifice time with you. If my income is greater than my husbands, guaranteed consistancy and job security, id ask him to move. We both need to sacrifice. If no new job maybe move in the middle after kiddos off to college. Id ask him to begin searching now so he can find a comfortable job. Then move. Like you said its taking a considerable toll so inevitably somethings gotta give. It can't be you in a nervous burnt out mess.
IIN that I prefer to commute 6 hours a day to finding another job?
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Your situation is abnormal but understandable. Me personally....i'd keep it up till she graduates. Something eventually is going to give. She is your kid however he is your mate and equal. You're taking the impact mostly. They are too but its so they can stay and have life as they know it so they sacrifice time with you. If my income is greater than my husbands, guaranteed consistancy and job security, id ask him to move. We both need to sacrifice. If no new job maybe move in the middle after kiddos off to college. Id ask him to begin searching now so he can find a comfortable job. Then move. Like you said its taking a considerable toll so inevitably somethings gotta give. It can't be you in a nervous burnt out mess.