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Is it normal that I love myself more than I love everyone ?
I always find that others are not as much interesting than I am, I even like the sound of my own voice and find myself attractive
People annoy me (sorry)
I wanna cure that narcissism before everything in my life shatters
I hate it when ya look at a light, then look away and there is red dots in ya vision. Don't you think?
No, thats great that you are thinking about yourself! and its not selfish, its taking care of your own needs
It's relatively normal.
What's ideal is to love God first, then love yourself, and then love other people.
If loving yourself first is about being selfish, and narcissistic then that probably isn't a good thing. The flip side of that are those very codependent people who put others first to the point that they act they are martyrs, and then go around being consumed by their own anger, and resentments.
The healthy way to put yourself first is to not do anything that would go against your own morals, and values. Also don't do anything that would go against any healthy boundaries you have set up for yourself.
I hope what I have said is of help to you.
basically love yourself. noone else is going to care as much if this or that happens to you, because it is not to them. they have a different experience to judge things. i thought it was weird when the teacher said when i was in grade school do you love yourself. i of course answered no and had no idea what that even meant. now people want to say if you cannot even love your self how is anyone else. i guess it goes into confidence and the way people look at you? who knows?
primus et solus amor. Would be a good saying for yourself. Or a cool ass tattoo of a nice Latin phrase.