Is it normal that I prefer cuddling to sex?

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  • cuppycake1228
    9 years ago | pl

    You must be my ex-bf. He never wanted to sleep with me. I even started to think he was gay. Did a number on my self esteem. No, it's not normal for a young guy to prefer cuddling over sex.

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    • thegypsysailor
      9 years ago | pl

      I agree with you 100%!
      If the OP thinks this attitude will make him more attractive to women, I believe he is sadly mistaken.
      Cuddling is great, after sex or at times when sex isn't an option, but sex is more fun than just about anything I can think of, and even better with a partner!
      Why is it so many young men are asexual, today?

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      • cuppycake1228
        9 years ago | pl

        I wish I knew. Could be many things -- poor diet, depression, stress, low testosterone, too much porn...the list goes on. My ex admitted to watching porn and masturbating on a daily basis, yet we had sex only 2-3 times a month!

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    • milskmiller
      9 years ago | pl

      I feel you!!! My ex was completely the same. Made me constantly feel i wasn't good enough :|

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      • cuppycake1228
        9 years ago | pl

        Right? It's the worst kind of rejection I've ever felt. It just rocks me to the core. Plus, I couldn't talk to him about it because once I brought it up, he felt inadequate and that only made the situation worse. I hope I never again wind up with a guy like that.

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