Tell you what I know from my best friend, who was also molested. Now listen carefully. She and her husband cancelled their honey moon because they couldn't even fathom the idea of been intimate. They got an advice by my own Grandmother to do something very simple. If you live by yourself and have a enough privacy to spend a weekend with each other in the nude (or Hotel); no sexual agenda, and please my Grandma recommended for you not to aim at sexual anything during that time, just walk around, seat together, be comfortable with him naked (and probably hard), give him a massage, trim his area, talk, have a wine, let him show you how he works his member, pour lube on it so he know your ok (guys can get shy too) and please let him show you his release!,...not in the dark,...just there, day light, like if you are just enjoying how cute is the whole male orgasm, shower him, make out, ask him not to touch you, but let him know you will touch him, everywhere. Sleep together, in the nude. And very important, let him read this! There is something almost magic about pampering a man who observe rules. Even when you get to where you want now; you might want to do this again from time to time.
Is it normal that I physically can't do this?
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Tell you what I know from my best friend, who was also molested. Now listen carefully. She and her husband cancelled their honey moon because they couldn't even fathom the idea of been intimate. They got an advice by my own Grandmother to do something very simple. If you live by yourself and have a enough privacy to spend a weekend with each other in the nude (or Hotel); no sexual agenda, and please my Grandma recommended for you not to aim at sexual anything during that time, just walk around, seat together, be comfortable with him naked (and probably hard), give him a massage, trim his area, talk, have a wine, let him show you how he works his member, pour lube on it so he know your ok (guys can get shy too) and please let him show you his release!,...not in the dark,...just there, day light, like if you are just enjoying how cute is the whole male orgasm, shower him, make out, ask him not to touch you, but let him know you will touch him, everywhere. Sleep together, in the nude. And very important, let him read this! There is something almost magic about pampering a man who observe rules. Even when you get to where you want now; you might want to do this again from time to time.