Now you would put a point on both of those scales based on your attraction to either. For *most* people, the points would veer at least slightly off the zero line.
If nothing else, look at it this way. It's pretty normal for a girl to appreciate when another woman is attractive, even if she isn't herself attracted to females really, yes? Yes.
Therefore, is it not alright in the same way for you to appreciate the male in pornography, or (at least) imagine yourself in his place and appreciate his position as being able to pleasure all those lovely women?
Don't worry about being straight or gay or up or down or left... just worry about being a human, being you, and being the best you you can be. Worrying over things like this is taking precious energy away from more worthwhile causes.
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This isn't really widely known yet, but the easiest way to look at sexuality is on a sliding scale.
So there's your sexual attractions towards males
0---------------------------------------------------------10
and sexual attraction towards females.
0---------------------------------------------------------10
Now you would put a point on both of those scales based on your attraction to either. For *most* people, the points would veer at least slightly off the zero line.
If nothing else, look at it this way. It's pretty normal for a girl to appreciate when another woman is attractive, even if she isn't herself attracted to females really, yes? Yes.
Therefore, is it not alright in the same way for you to appreciate the male in pornography, or (at least) imagine yourself in his place and appreciate his position as being able to pleasure all those lovely women?
Don't worry about being straight or gay or up or down or left... just worry about being a human, being you, and being the best you you can be. Worrying over things like this is taking precious energy away from more worthwhile causes.