Well, why does it turn you off? Why does it make you paranoid? Is it because you think that looking at a man's penis might make you gay? The answer to that is a definite no. Even if you do secretly kind of like it, it's not a big deal.
Being paranoid about being gay or bi-sexual seems to be a common thing with men these days because there's such a stigma around it. Just remind yourself that a penis is a normal piece of flesh, and that simply looking at one has nothing to do with your sexuality.
Now you would put a point on both of those scales based on your attraction to either. For *most* people, the points would veer at least slightly off the zero line.
If nothing else, look at it this way. It's pretty normal for a girl to appreciate when another woman is attractive, even if she isn't herself attracted to females really, yes? Yes.
Therefore, is it not alright in the same way for you to appreciate the male in pornography, or (at least) imagine yourself in his place and appreciate his position as being able to pleasure all those lovely women?
Don't worry about being straight or gay or up or down or left... just worry about being a human, being you, and being the best you you can be. Worrying over things like this is taking precious energy away from more worthwhile causes.
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Well, why does it turn you off? Why does it make you paranoid? Is it because you think that looking at a man's penis might make you gay? The answer to that is a definite no. Even if you do secretly kind of like it, it's not a big deal.
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Yeah i think because of that.
I dont know man...
I am sure im not a gay, because i can sure my favorite part is Milf, but whenever i saw penis, damn, it just make me sick
oh yeah i also afraid with Bi-sex
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Being paranoid about being gay or bi-sexual seems to be a common thing with men these days because there's such a stigma around it. Just remind yourself that a penis is a normal piece of flesh, and that simply looking at one has nothing to do with your sexuality.
This isn't really widely known yet, but the easiest way to look at sexuality is on a sliding scale.
So there's your sexual attractions towards males
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and sexual attraction towards females.
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Now you would put a point on both of those scales based on your attraction to either. For *most* people, the points would veer at least slightly off the zero line.
If nothing else, look at it this way. It's pretty normal for a girl to appreciate when another woman is attractive, even if she isn't herself attracted to females really, yes? Yes.
Therefore, is it not alright in the same way for you to appreciate the male in pornography, or (at least) imagine yourself in his place and appreciate his position as being able to pleasure all those lovely women?
Don't worry about being straight or gay or up or down or left... just worry about being a human, being you, and being the best you you can be. Worrying over things like this is taking precious energy away from more worthwhile causes.