Is it normal that i only respond to cute white guys online?

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For example on social websites I get a lot of messages, I'm not bad looking, I would say a little bit more than average so I get quite a lot of attention. I'm 18 years old and I'm from Manila.

I would get A LOT from Middle Eastern guys/Asian like Pakistanis and Indians (not Japanese, Korean, Chinese I don't mind them) and I won't even open the messages.

I just find them really creepy and weird. Most of them never seem to speak English properly and they always send disgusting and creepy messages to me :( Even when someone request me a friend request on Social sites if their name doesn't look English I would be reluctant to accept them.

What's wrong with me?! why do I think this way?! I'm pretty sure this is racism, I don't want to be a negative person but I just can't help but think this way?

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago | pl

    You're not racist, you just have a preference.

    I wouldn't respond to creepy messages either.

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    • Icame2
      10 years ago

      yeah... why am i responding?!

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        How is it using my old user name? Do you enjoy it?

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        • Icame2
          10 years ago

          yes. Can u guess who it is?

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            I don't really care enough to find out. My best guess would probably be that guy who had the atlantis, sheppard, and IIN_management_sucks accounts and got banned three times. If not him the only other person would be that user who is april;)

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  • Energy
    10 years ago

    It's not racism. My best friend is a good looking girl. She loves all that Internet social stuff. There's A LOT of horny foreigners who always try to chat to her. She started off being nice to them, talking to them, but all they end up wanting is sex (most of them). So now she just ignores them. And only answers certain types of people.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    I ignore these kinds of people too, because honestly EVERYONE that I do give a chance tries their cheap pick-up lines with me and I'm so far from interested as anyone can be.

    You stick to your preferences and don't feel ashamed over them.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    I would only answer cute desi girls so meh.

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  • footprints
    10 years ago

    I can agree. A lot of not english speaker go on social sites to practice their english. It is frustrating sometimes. Then add on their bad pickup lines and horny attitudes. I too have been know to ignore them.

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    • lufa
      10 years ago

      rofl

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    Totally fine

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  • linchpin
    10 years ago

    You're after a keeper not a creeper.

    Normal.

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  • bemah
    10 years ago

    Haha totally normal :P my friend is obsessed with Asians!!!

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  • lufa
    10 years ago

    The media shapes your attitudes towards race. For a long time whites had a monopoly on the most coveted roles in film, music and tv-which is what fills people's fantasies and desires. Eventually blacks broke into it and became more accepted, then asians with their wealth put themselves in A-list movies so now you think they're okay enough to date.

    Meanwhile middle-eastern people and pakistanis have usually been portrayed as villians and terrorists, which is actually fairly accurate, because they're muslim and that's made them pretty evil people.

    Unfortunately Indians who are genuinely peaceful, good people got dragged down with them and have been stuck in racist stereotypical, demeaning, insulting and degrading roles. However that is slowly changing also since Indians in the West have a lot of wealth and are breaking into Hollywood and other areas.

    As well there probably aren't as many 'brown people' in the USA. Meanwhile in the UK Indians or 'Asians' are considered pretty hot and tend to date/marry white people. In Canada (where I am) they're coming up also.

    I'm of Indian origin and considered goodlooking. Most of my girlfriends have been white-I tend to go for the hottest ones I can get, will probably marry a white girl also.

    However there's many people from my own background I don't like much-I think they should try to integrate like the Sikhs and Hindus. I'm atheist and very 'westernized'.

    What bugs me is when I see a really hot white girl dating some ugly dude from any race. At least go for someone good looking or your kids will come out looking like freaks.

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    • gummy_jr
      10 years ago

      So what you're saying is:
      1.) you're a shallow douchebag with an oversized ego.
      2.) everyone should date Muslims/Indians
      3.) you're an idiot if you have preferences
      4.) "ugly" people should be single and never have any romantic contact or socialization.

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      • lufa
        10 years ago

        Usually when people dumb things down, as you've just done, it's either because they're dumb and are trying to make complicated things simpler so they could understand them, or they're trying to deliberately misrepresent their opponents position to make them look bad. I can see it's a bit of both in your case.

        1) this comment tells me you're an ugly person who's envious of those who date hotter people and have better lives.

        2) no I said don't date Muslims because they are violent dangerous, crazy people. Do date Indian people because they are good, peaceful people as anyone else.

        3) dumbass I said what we call 'preference' is really a product of socialization. Just as your 'preference' for a certain car comes from what you've learned about them.

        4) another gross misrepresentation. You clearly have reading and comprehension issues. I said hot people shouldn't date ugly people since their kids will look like mutants. Uglies can date each other-yet again I think I hit a nerve with you because it's something you took personally.

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        • gummy_jr
          10 years ago

          I'm not even going to waste my time typing another long response to you. You're really not even worth it.

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          • lufa
            10 years ago

            Given how idiotically you performed earlier, you are doing yourself a favor and saving yourself from more embarrassment.

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        • gummy_jr
          10 years ago

          And I'm the dumbass? You might want to look at who has top comment on this post.

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          • lufa
            10 years ago

            Getting a 'top comment' is like winning the retard olympics so congrats Corky.

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    • lufa
      10 years ago

      Racists and muslims giving me the thumbs down, haters gonna hate.

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      • chase_that_feeling
        10 years ago

        Oh you are hilarious

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        • lufa
          10 years ago

          Glad someone noticed.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Are you black?

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    • mixwell
      10 years ago

      Did you not read the fucking story? She's from Manila which is in the Philippines so she's Filipina..

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    • gummy_jr
      10 years ago

      No, she's dark white.

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      • FluffySheep
        10 years ago

        Dark white, I just lost my shit LMFAO.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Considering you're Asian, I assume you'll have to settle for an archetypical White nerd; the kind who wears Birkenstock sandals and watches Sailor Moon.

    Decent and mentally sound White people breed with Whites - exclusively.

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