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I really love anal sex more than normal. I mean I like both but I just can't resist doing girls in the ass is this normal?
The back door is the only way to enter. Just be gentle and caring and you'll find you can't keep the women away.
Ways to make it more pleasurable for her:
Have a conversation with her honestly about the act and your wish to perform it prior to engaging in sex. If she is hesitant or unwilling to participate, respect her wishes and drop it. If she is interested, then you have work to do.
Setting the mood to get her to relax is important. The anxiety most women feel about being penetrated anally may cause her to feel very tense at the moment of penetration which could lead to injury. I suggest taking as much time and effort as is necessary to help her relax (petting and massage, bubble bathing, other sexual acts etc) prior to anal penetration.
Hygiene is also an issue to think about. While all sex is generally germ and disease-risky, anal sex carries the highest risk. You might be able to purchase an anal douche at health and sex store or online. This way, she can clean out her anal canal to reduce fecal matter there via an enema. Also have a thought as to whether or not you would prefer to wear a condom (disease AND infection are major considerations).
Lubrication, Lubrication, Lubrication! With beginners, do not use saliva because it will not provide sufficient lubrication. Go to a sex store, or online and buy water-based anal lubrication. Ensure that the entire shaft of the penetrating penis and the outer sphincter and the inner lining of the anal canal are well lubricated (use fingers to do this...gently) prior to penetration.
To address your question more directly, it is fairly normal to want to anally penetrate a woman you are attracted to. But this is not a widely accepted, discussed or conventional sex act, so you may want to be careful about how you approach a woman about it, and decide how important it is to you because some women will simply have no interest in it. Also, like all sex acts, it is best, safest and most enjoyable when practiced in a monogamous relationship where there is love, trust and communication.
best of luck to you!
1 time I had anal sex with my cousin Juliana when she was 16 and I was 14 , she pulled her panties down and bent over and I put my dick in her ass she loved it my dick went far in her butthole, I'm 2 years younger and I still fucked her in the ass
I'm assuming you are male.
Heterosexual male penetration of the anus is enjoyed by many males. This taboo sex act is becoming more and more popular as more and more people (both male and female) are admitting to trying it in their sex lives.
Anal sex can be extremely pleasurable for the man because the anal canal is very tight and provides friction that may not exist in the vagina. For the woman being penetrated however, anal sex is less likely to be as gratifying: Fear and anxiety, inexperience, lack of preparation and lack of a sense of comfort and trust could all combine to make the experience very painful for some women. In some situations, anal sex can also be painful for the male if proper precautions (lubrication) aren't taken and there is less experience with the act. Read the 'Ways to make it more pleasurable for her' section above for more info on this.
Somethings to remember about the act:
Homosexual males are more likely to enjoy anal penetration than females are because of the anatomical set-up of the anal canal and the prostate. The prostate usually gives a gratifying feeling when massaged, and the penetrating penis does this while in the anus. A woman does not have a prostate, so there is far less of a likelihood that she may enjoy anal penetration.
Definitely normal, in fact most guys prefer anal even if they don't do it all the time. Quite often a guy would gladly go anal only if he could but he doesn't broach it out of fear that women don't like anal as much as men—which isn't true. Do it right, and many women will beg you to fuck their ass as much as you want. Do it wrong and they'll never want you to do it again.
I always say don't knock it till you have tried it. So my suggestion is to have anal sex with a girl and then ask her to strap on a dildo and take you up your anus. That way you will see both sides of the coin and you will probably enjoy being pegged by your girl.