IIN that I only have sex to please the girl.

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  • oneeyedtree
    8 years ago | pl

    I am the same way. I don't initiate sex and don't care one way or another if I have it. If it gets initiated then so be it. There are a lot of reasons for what you could be feeling under the umbrella term Asexuality. I always thought something was "wrong" with me until about 8 months ago I found a website dedicated to asexuals. It fits.

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    • Splithead
      8 years ago | pl

      Im not asexual though I just sort of.... talk myself out of my sex drive whenever it creeps up. Once a girl lets me know she wants to have sex I take full control, like I tap into myself but even then its fully to please them. I don't initiate when I want to because I feel bad, like I shouldn't. I don't stop aka cum like I want to because I feel ashamed of that too. I end up feeling that the woman owns my sex drive.... like its not really mine to stop or start.I don't even ever really choose the girl.... they always choose me and when they don't I just kind of go without. Even with these good sexual habits I still dont really feel in control of sex as it pertains to me

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