Many people have different attractions. Some have many attractions to different varieties, some are more limited. Why? Ugh... I don't have time to write a novel. But look at this way: some people prefer brunettes over blondes, is that wrong? No. It's just a preference. Some people prefer men who are circumcised as opposed to men that are uncircumcised. Also, something that's just a preference. The only difference for you is that this preference is to someone's ethnicity. It's not racist or abnormal.
Now, I'm not sure if you feel this way toward *every* asian man, (you might, I don't know) but if you truly feel that way about every asian man, than you could argue that you are turning the thought of asian men into a fetish. Fetishes are attractions we have towards objects or fantasies. In that circumstance it could be argued racist, because it's de-humanizing asian men as objects. But even if that were the case- you don't consciously choose those thoughts. That's something I'm pretty confident you may just be exaggerating on. I'm beyond confident there's some asian men out of the 7 billion+ people on this earth that you're not aroused by. So don't worry if something is normal or not when it comes to these feelings. Sexuality is way too broad and unique to each individual on earth to be concretely defined. It's like trying to define "love" or "freedom". Just let your freak-flag fly.
Is it normal that I only get turned on by asian men?
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I'm a human sexuality educator. Yes, it's normal.
Many people have different attractions. Some have many attractions to different varieties, some are more limited. Why? Ugh... I don't have time to write a novel. But look at this way: some people prefer brunettes over blondes, is that wrong? No. It's just a preference. Some people prefer men who are circumcised as opposed to men that are uncircumcised. Also, something that's just a preference. The only difference for you is that this preference is to someone's ethnicity. It's not racist or abnormal.
Now, I'm not sure if you feel this way toward *every* asian man, (you might, I don't know) but if you truly feel that way about every asian man, than you could argue that you are turning the thought of asian men into a fetish. Fetishes are attractions we have towards objects or fantasies. In that circumstance it could be argued racist, because it's de-humanizing asian men as objects. But even if that were the case- you don't consciously choose those thoughts. That's something I'm pretty confident you may just be exaggerating on. I'm beyond confident there's some asian men out of the 7 billion+ people on this earth that you're not aroused by. So don't worry if something is normal or not when it comes to these feelings. Sexuality is way too broad and unique to each individual on earth to be concretely defined. It's like trying to define "love" or "freedom". Just let your freak-flag fly.