Considering the crappy treatment you've gotten in the past I think it's normal that its had a negative effect on your self confidence.
I wonder how many of the people who said such cruel things were actually jealous because they are overweight or wished they looked like you. People often like to magnify the perceived shortcomings of others to make themselves feel better.
Try talking to your boyfriend about your concerns. You may be relieved to find that some of the things you're concerned with aren't worth the worry.
Is it normal that I obsess so much?
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Considering the crappy treatment you've gotten in the past I think it's normal that its had a negative effect on your self confidence.
I wonder how many of the people who said such cruel things were actually jealous because they are overweight or wished they looked like you. People often like to magnify the perceived shortcomings of others to make themselves feel better.
Try talking to your boyfriend about your concerns. You may be relieved to find that some of the things you're concerned with aren't worth the worry.