Thanks for your feedback! I've never made any allusions to the girls that they are mine - indeed, we even kept a photo album of their real dad, info about him, etc so that they would have as much information as possible should they ever want to see him or if he ever returned... i've always seen the children as 'borrowed' for want of a better word, knowing that one day they will be gone (whether married, college, teenage strop, whatever) just didn't think it would be this soon and in these circumstances. There is the added complication(and I should perhaps have said this earlier...) of the son that my wife and I have between us. Again, all the kids are aware that the boy is my son and my responsibility legally....it's all such a mess.....
Is it normal that I no longer want contact with my ex-wife's children?
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Thanks for your feedback! I've never made any allusions to the girls that they are mine - indeed, we even kept a photo album of their real dad, info about him, etc so that they would have as much information as possible should they ever want to see him or if he ever returned... i've always seen the children as 'borrowed' for want of a better word, knowing that one day they will be gone (whether married, college, teenage strop, whatever) just didn't think it would be this soon and in these circumstances. There is the added complication(and I should perhaps have said this earlier...) of the son that my wife and I have between us. Again, all the kids are aware that the boy is my son and my responsibility legally....it's all such a mess.....