Is it normal that i never felt love?

When someone says they love me i have no reaction whatsoever, even if is family that says that. I never felt love for someone or anything but i don't want to because i feel it will waste my time and wont't benefit in a good way.Nothing happen in the past that made me this person that i'm . I always been like been like this,please understand.

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  • DavidS.

    Caring is love ....it may not have the full intensity and expression of romantic love...but if you truly care about someone then you are feeling love

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    • DavidS.

      And break core, you are comfortable because that is a protective defense aginst being hurt...you owe it to yourself to feel love...good luck

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      • breakcore45

        im the creator of this question.And you misunderstood why im comfortable to live without love.i personally don't feel hurt when someone hurts me mentally.

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  • DavidS.

    Sometimes lack of love,,affection and nurturance as a baby leads to this but you were too young to remember ....this lack of feeling for others will drastically hurt your life...people are not stupid..they will pull away from you if they do not feel you care about them...you will up lonely with a lack of support...get counseling

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    • breakcore45

      im comfortable this way, is just not able to love but im able to trust and care to certain limit.

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  • See I kind of have the same feeling about love. When you said that you don't want to feel love because you feel like you're wasting time, well I can kind of understand that. However, love isn't something that will waste your time because without it you can't evolve as a person. Humans sort of need to have experiences in order to shape them into someone who knows how the world works. Love is something that I think everyone should experience because without it you won't be able to understand people better thus you won't be able to understand the world better. I don't think this is normal, but it's understandable.

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  • Energy

    That sucks, love is a great feeling, and a very good part of love. I know it's risky (relationship wise) but it's very well worth it! If you never experience it..you wont feel how good it feels..

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    • Energy

      Very good part of life* I meant, sorry :P!

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