Is it normal that i need everyone i meet to like me.
Is it normal that I need everyone I meet to like me even if I don't like them? If some one doesn't like me I will obsess over it for hours, trying to figure out exactly why.
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Is it normal that I need everyone I meet to like me even if I don't like them? If some one doesn't like me I will obsess over it for hours, trying to figure out exactly why.
No, it's not normal. You have a problem with confidence. If someone doesn't like me for no reason I move on. If it is for something and they don't let me know I move on. The point is you are obsessing over something out of your control and that want for control is linked to your self confidence.
Oh and ignore those comments which say "I don't like you" because they're doing that deliberately to make you feel worse about the whole thing. I think with questions like these, you need to be careful when posting them online because people can easily make fun of the content in the question. I would suggest talking to someone you trust about it instead in future. Best wishes.
I understand how it feels not to be liked, and I'm pretty sure other people want to be liked as much you do. However, I think to linger on this would not be considered normal. You can't force people to like you, and you should know by now that not everyone will, whatever their reasons. Don't be too hard on yourself about it. There will always be a good few if not many people whom you'd be much able to relate to and that's really all you need, people like yourself.
I used to be like this. You need 3 or 4 friends that you can guarantee will like you no matter what you do (my friend is like that I was horrible to him and it didn't damage our friendship at all we never hold grudges against each other) and hang around them all the time until you get your confidence back. It's not necessary for a stranger to like you and not realistic, do you like absolutely every person you meet?
there's always going to be someone you don't like, and someone could meet you and think that about you, if you think it's necessary for everyone to like you then you'll be too afraid to speak your mind. This person said it's better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you're not, not sure if I agree with it but that's what someone said.