I think people are going to raise moral issues about this for obvious reasons. However, to temper that somewhat, I recall reading about a reaction of American women to news of soldiers being killed in Vietnam. A small minority reported this as being a turn-on to them. My initial reaction was one of utter shock and disgust at the lack of respect for someone not only endangering their life, but losing it.
But then I thought about it some more. These women weren't glad that soldiers had died. That they had a sexual response just shows that human sexuality is a very complex beast. The worst thing we can do is judge or to push people underground with their thoughts and urges.
My worry for you, as with most who fetishise, is that you become densensitised and this requires you to take things a step farther to get the same initial sexual charge. I'm not sure where you can go next and if people have a problem with what you already do, they'll most certainly have a problem if you step this up another notch.
Personally, I do feel it's disrespectful and I wouldn't want you masturbating over me in my moment of extremis. But I'm not about to lambast you for being honest. This is in no way a vote that what you do is normal. It's just a reminder that no issue is truly black and white.
Is it normal that I masturbate to videos of suicides?
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I think people are going to raise moral issues about this for obvious reasons. However, to temper that somewhat, I recall reading about a reaction of American women to news of soldiers being killed in Vietnam. A small minority reported this as being a turn-on to them. My initial reaction was one of utter shock and disgust at the lack of respect for someone not only endangering their life, but losing it.
But then I thought about it some more. These women weren't glad that soldiers had died. That they had a sexual response just shows that human sexuality is a very complex beast. The worst thing we can do is judge or to push people underground with their thoughts and urges.
My worry for you, as with most who fetishise, is that you become densensitised and this requires you to take things a step farther to get the same initial sexual charge. I'm not sure where you can go next and if people have a problem with what you already do, they'll most certainly have a problem if you step this up another notch.
Personally, I do feel it's disrespectful and I wouldn't want you masturbating over me in my moment of extremis. But I'm not about to lambast you for being honest. This is in no way a vote that what you do is normal. It's just a reminder that no issue is truly black and white.