It sounds like it started out as a lark but that you - and perhaps she too - had a real physical reaction.
The fact that you have to meet up on the sly and that she is being distant as well suggests that her partner may disapprove and possibly feels that if you pair up again she may cheat with you.
In all honesty, you might not get the friendship back the way you wanted. Although it may have started as just a joke... it sounds like it caused real damage to your friend's relationship with her partner.
Also... again since you have to meet up and hide it suggests the partner does not approve of you remaining friends. So this could become another breach of trust between the two women.
IIN that I(male)fool around and make out with my butch lesbian friend?
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It sounds like it started out as a lark but that you - and perhaps she too - had a real physical reaction.
The fact that you have to meet up on the sly and that she is being distant as well suggests that her partner may disapprove and possibly feels that if you pair up again she may cheat with you.
In all honesty, you might not get the friendship back the way you wanted. Although it may have started as just a joke... it sounds like it caused real damage to your friend's relationship with her partner.
Also... again since you have to meet up and hide it suggests the partner does not approve of you remaining friends. So this could become another breach of trust between the two women.