Due to that 2nd paragraph, I've lost a lifelong "friend" and person I dated for 4 months due to school expectations and her own unrealistic goals so I can say that people really do put school on a fantasy pole and won't end up anywhere. Everyone dreams and gets degrees but very FEW actually do anything with them. Most only do it because society unfairly requires it, not because they actually like calculus or will use it in real life. I think it'd be wise for the OP not to judge like that as I find bookworms and top of the class junkies to fail in actual life skills after all that is done.
As for the topic, just like everyone says, its normal that you aren't attracted to the guy, that is no crime. It is one to be so judgmental though, supposed "losers" are usually the best company in disguise, I can guarantee that.
Is it normal that I'm trying hard to friendzone this guy?
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Due to that 2nd paragraph, I've lost a lifelong "friend" and person I dated for 4 months due to school expectations and her own unrealistic goals so I can say that people really do put school on a fantasy pole and won't end up anywhere. Everyone dreams and gets degrees but very FEW actually do anything with them. Most only do it because society unfairly requires it, not because they actually like calculus or will use it in real life. I think it'd be wise for the OP not to judge like that as I find bookworms and top of the class junkies to fail in actual life skills after all that is done.
As for the topic, just like everyone says, its normal that you aren't attracted to the guy, that is no crime. It is one to be so judgmental though, supposed "losers" are usually the best company in disguise, I can guarantee that.