People don't always seem to completely choose who they are attracted to. It seems to be something that happens. I don't think someone can force themselves to be attracted to someone they aren't and most people have standards, some more than others, and that's ok. What sucks about this situation is that his crush on you is longstanding which means he has been thinking about you too much and moving on will be harder for him than if it was just a brief thing. Either way it will be good for him to learn from his mistake about obsessing over someone else. Having long term crushes is very unhealthy. Usually I like several girls at a time and I lose intrest easily.
Is it normal that I'm trying hard to friendzone this guy?
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People don't always seem to completely choose who they are attracted to. It seems to be something that happens. I don't think someone can force themselves to be attracted to someone they aren't and most people have standards, some more than others, and that's ok. What sucks about this situation is that his crush on you is longstanding which means he has been thinking about you too much and moving on will be harder for him than if it was just a brief thing. Either way it will be good for him to learn from his mistake about obsessing over someone else. Having long term crushes is very unhealthy. Usually I like several girls at a time and I lose intrest easily.