This is obviously a toxic relationship and she's taking you for granted. From what you've said you've given her many chances to try and change the way she behaves and she still continues to treat you very badly and it's just shifted from physical to verbal. Keep in mind that despite what anyone tells you, you can still be abused and mistreated by a girl. Ask yourself if you could honestly see yourself marrying this girl in the long term especially if it continues to get worse while you're dating, which is the test, you'll just end up getting yourself even more hurt in the end. If you do end up breaking up with her, she may try the old i'll change if you keep me tactic, don't fall for it, move on.. Get your life in order for a couple weeks or so, make her see that you are serious and make her think about her actions for a little while. Then if you still want to give it another go, talk to her and set up rules for the relationship: such as she's not to touch you aggressively or verbally abuse you in any manner you don't find appropriate or the relationship is over and be serious about it. I really hope you can work things out, sometimes it takes a wake up call to change people for the better and when they realize what they may potentially lose.
Is it normal that I'm treated this way?
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This is obviously a toxic relationship and she's taking you for granted. From what you've said you've given her many chances to try and change the way she behaves and she still continues to treat you very badly and it's just shifted from physical to verbal. Keep in mind that despite what anyone tells you, you can still be abused and mistreated by a girl. Ask yourself if you could honestly see yourself marrying this girl in the long term especially if it continues to get worse while you're dating, which is the test, you'll just end up getting yourself even more hurt in the end. If you do end up breaking up with her, she may try the old i'll change if you keep me tactic, don't fall for it, move on.. Get your life in order for a couple weeks or so, make her see that you are serious and make her think about her actions for a little while. Then if you still want to give it another go, talk to her and set up rules for the relationship: such as she's not to touch you aggressively or verbally abuse you in any manner you don't find appropriate or the relationship is over and be serious about it. I really hope you can work things out, sometimes it takes a wake up call to change people for the better and when they realize what they may potentially lose.