Is it normal that i'm this angry over what he did to his ex-gf's???

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Ok. I'll start here. I'm with the love of my life. Never met anybody like him before, i wanna be with him forever, you get the picture.
I've always known since the time we started just "talking", that he doesnt like to give oral sex, he's made comments that he "doesn't do it" and basically that he thinks its nasty.
We've been together a year, he's never done it to me. But not long ago, he told me he's only done it 4 times before, to 4 different girls. I know what these girls look like. totally different than me. All have "nice bodies" and blonde hair.
It makes me so mad to think THEY were good enough for him to do something to them that he didnt like, but he wont do it to me!????!!!!
Am i being ridiculous????? What made him want to do it to those sl*ts!??? he's said before that if he does that it has to do with "hygiene" and what they look like and all this other stupid sh*t, but i know for a fact these girls are NASTY. and are sl*ts that screw everybody, and i'm NOT nasty, and i've ONLY BEEN WITH HIM!!!! it makes no sense!!!

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  • Memehoney
    12 years ago | pl

    My bf wouldn't go down on me at first either because he had never done it before. He said it was nasty too and said he would only really do that to somebody he really loved.. On Valentines of this year it was 4 years that we'd been together (our anniversary is august 8th) and he went down on me I didn't ask or anything he just wanted to. I was so surprised because I never thought he would do that but a close friend of ours said yeah he must really love u because he told all the fellas he'd never do that unless it was the right girl... Dont stress just assess the situation and seeing as it's only been a year maybe he just wants to see if ur the right girl. But if u realize his reasons are superficially based kick him to the curb and find a guy who eats our for breakfast, lunch, and dinner...... Lol.....Hope this help...

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  • hannahj03
    12 years ago | pl

    He could be an asshole or it could be that he tried it once with each of these women and it took that many times for him to realize he doesn't like it and now he's figured out the boundary he needs to set at the beginning of a relationship. So you can either deal with it or you can't. Simple as that.

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  • glueeater
    12 years ago | pl

    dump him!!!!!

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