Is it normal that I'm suspicious of my boyfriend?

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  • riley10
    11 years ago | pl

    We've only had sex twice since November, and he's the one that's been turning me down :(

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      11 years ago | pl

      so what exactly are you getting out of this relationship then?

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago | pl

      WHOA.

      YO, that's a serious red flag right there.
      Serious red flag.

      He MIGHT be cheating. Not to try to worry you over nothing, but if you guys haven't had sex since November??? Serious red flag.

      I'd hate to admit this, but I cheated on a boyfriend once, and I would not have sex with him after I cheated or while I was cheating. Because I didn't want him anymore. I was just too comfortable with the stability in the relationship. There's no way that he is happy with the relationship if he is withholding intimacy.

      I know that you two are adults, but unless you guys are a couple of middle-aged or senior citizens there is no excuse to have to go 3+ months without intimacy.

      I may be totally mistaken, but even adults with a low sex drive know they have a bad relationship when the sex is dwindling THAT much.

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