1) If you pay taxes you're paying for him to do this. (in fact we're ALL paying his way)
2) Is he contributing to the household? If he's spending all of his unemployment money on moody gas driving, what's he contributing to keeping the household running?
I mean it's one thing to just do this once in a while, but now he's driving around because he's moody every night, for 7+ hours?
Maybe it's time he stopped thinking of just himself and his moody feelings and started contributing to your household and relationship.
Exactly. For the record, he doesn't go every day. He's been going one day out of the week for the past three/four weeks now. He went two days last week; once bc he just wanted to go (Tues. night) and the other time was on Friday night bc we got into a fight, which wasn't even a major one at all! And when he came home at 4 am, he slept in the living room. We made up on Saturday, and everything was fine, until I checked his miles yesterday. :( I'm so afraid that our relationship may end ver soon.
I know that there has got to be a tracker app you can download on his smart phone if you're that curious. He should tell you where, just so long as you're not up his ass "UR CHEATING ON ME ARENT UUUU!!!!"
Haha, no, I'm not doing that because I can't assume anything since I don't have hard evidence. He could be cheating or he could not be cheating. He could be going to strip clubs or not going. I have no idea. I actually tell him, "I know you're not a cheater."
He doesn't have a smart phone. But I don't know how I'll feel to download that app on his phone anyway.
Is it normal that I'm suspicious of my boyfriend?
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You're paying for it anyway - in two ways really.
1) If you pay taxes you're paying for him to do this. (in fact we're ALL paying his way)
2) Is he contributing to the household? If he's spending all of his unemployment money on moody gas driving, what's he contributing to keeping the household running?
I mean it's one thing to just do this once in a while, but now he's driving around because he's moody every night, for 7+ hours?
Maybe it's time he stopped thinking of just himself and his moody feelings and started contributing to your household and relationship.
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Exactly. For the record, he doesn't go every day. He's been going one day out of the week for the past three/four weeks now. He went two days last week; once bc he just wanted to go (Tues. night) and the other time was on Friday night bc we got into a fight, which wasn't even a major one at all! And when he came home at 4 am, he slept in the living room. We made up on Saturday, and everything was fine, until I checked his miles yesterday. :( I'm so afraid that our relationship may end ver soon.
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I know that there has got to be a tracker app you can download on his smart phone if you're that curious. He should tell you where, just so long as you're not up his ass "UR CHEATING ON ME ARENT UUUU!!!!"
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Haha, no, I'm not doing that because I can't assume anything since I don't have hard evidence. He could be cheating or he could not be cheating. He could be going to strip clubs or not going. I have no idea. I actually tell him, "I know you're not a cheater."
He doesn't have a smart phone. But I don't know how I'll feel to download that app on his phone anyway.