Try to get into his head before you jump to conclusions. But that is extremely suspicious that that money is coming outta nowhere. Either he is getting into some debt or he got into something else.
Granted if you guys don't have sex and he turns you down when you try to initiate then major red light. Something seems majorly wrong in your relationship. Even I can sense when my husband is worried and I'm willing to give up a tiny bit of my independence for his comfort.
YO, that's a serious red flag right there.
Serious red flag.
He MIGHT be cheating. Not to try to worry you over nothing, but if you guys haven't had sex since November??? Serious red flag.
I'd hate to admit this, but I cheated on a boyfriend once, and I would not have sex with him after I cheated or while I was cheating. Because I didn't want him anymore. I was just too comfortable with the stability in the relationship. There's no way that he is happy with the relationship if he is withholding intimacy.
I know that you two are adults, but unless you guys are a couple of middle-aged or senior citizens there is no excuse to have to go 3+ months without intimacy.
I may be totally mistaken, but even adults with a low sex drive know they have a bad relationship when the sex is dwindling THAT much.
Is it normal that I'm suspicious of my boyfriend?
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Try to get into his head before you jump to conclusions. But that is extremely suspicious that that money is coming outta nowhere. Either he is getting into some debt or he got into something else.
Granted if you guys don't have sex and he turns you down when you try to initiate then major red light. Something seems majorly wrong in your relationship. Even I can sense when my husband is worried and I'm willing to give up a tiny bit of my independence for his comfort.
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We've only had sex twice since November, and he's the one that's been turning me down :(
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so what exactly are you getting out of this relationship then?
WHOA.
YO, that's a serious red flag right there.
Serious red flag.
He MIGHT be cheating. Not to try to worry you over nothing, but if you guys haven't had sex since November??? Serious red flag.
I'd hate to admit this, but I cheated on a boyfriend once, and I would not have sex with him after I cheated or while I was cheating. Because I didn't want him anymore. I was just too comfortable with the stability in the relationship. There's no way that he is happy with the relationship if he is withholding intimacy.
I know that you two are adults, but unless you guys are a couple of middle-aged or senior citizens there is no excuse to have to go 3+ months without intimacy.
I may be totally mistaken, but even adults with a low sex drive know they have a bad relationship when the sex is dwindling THAT much.