Is it normal that I'm suspicious of my boyfriend?

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  • lc1988
    11 years ago | pl

    Maybe he has a place he likes to go and think that he doesn't want you to know about. I used to do this a few years where I would drive around but always go to this one spot after a while out in the wilderness.

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    • riley10
      11 years ago | pl

      But why doesn't he want me to know about it?? I believe I have a right to know.

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        11 years ago | pl

        Maybe he doesn't like that you're getting on his arse about it, and it's a possibility that he doesn't want you going there to bother him. Frankly, if gas wasn't so expensive, I'd do the same thing.

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        • lc1988
          11 years ago | pl

          It's okay to have some secrets. It's not hurting anyone. It's just a special spot. Don't be so controlling and have a little trust or do you both a favor and leave...if that's what it is lol

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          • NeuroNeptunian
            11 years ago | pl

            Well they are not having sex either. They're both unhappy in the relationship, there are many factors at play here and you would have to read all of her posts to see them.

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            • riley10
              11 years ago | pl

              I am very happy in this relationship. Otherwise, I wouldn't be on here trying to figure out what was going on to save our relationship. This may be TMI, but we just had sex an hour ago :D He has not changed at all the entire time we've been together. He's still very loving

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            • lc1988
              11 years ago | pl

              i don't see the no sex thing in the post...maybe I'm just blind.

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        • riley10
          11 years ago | pl

          But I wouldn't go bother him. Why would I?

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          • NeuroNeptunian
            11 years ago | pl

            Maybe you won't, but it's an independance thing (and I have that issue as well) that, if you don't understand now, you will never understand.

            I like to go out and do things and previous boyfriends in the past always like to know where I was going but sometimes I just didn't care to tell them that I was going to the races, or going to hang out with my friends, etc. This is me time, get a fucking life. It's not like I am worried about them coming to find me but I just have an unexplainable desire not to have to explain myself when I am an adult and I'm not really doing anything wrong.

            My husband understands that. I don't go out as often as your husband does but he understands that sometimes I just don't want to explain myself.

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