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So My boyfriend and I have had sex before and everything and whenever we do it, it still hurts like its my first time or something. I bleed and am sore for a few days after every time we do it. We've probably done it twenty or so times so its not like im that new.
If you go to your doctor you will get the same lame answers I always got. "It's nothing." I went to an actual gynocolegist complaining of similar problems and she helped me out. 1st off, if your partner has a large penis, this can cause it. The bleeding is blood being knocked loose from your uterus. If the pain is a deep pain, then it is cause by him hitting your ovaries (I know, what the hell?) She said that your vagina is actually only 3inches deep un excited. To fix this he must froeplay adn turn you on before inter coarse. When going to push inside you he must go slowly and gently to stretch get your vagina to stretch to his size. If he has a large penis, not all womens vaginas can get that large, so he'll have to not go in as far so he doens't hurt you. Positions that can make you bleed more are generally from behind, so Missionary or oyu on top are best. She swwaid your ovaries are always changin positions, so it won't hurt ALL the time. It just depend on their position. I would still get checked though. If you come out clean, then it's probably what I listed.
Truth is, medical science knows JACK SHIT about the female body. My doctor just said "It's fine." :/ It's legit, I thought it was weird to, but if you go far enough into the vagina, you can hit the ovaries. She said only if it is very deep pain. The cervix isn't actually all that deep when a woman is unaroused. Not sure if you're a guy or a girl, but I'm assuming your male. If you've ever fingered a girl you may have felt that lump thing in there, that's the cervix. It far enough it that you can reach it with a finger... It's sounds strange, but it's actually kind of enlightening. A sign that it is your ovaries being hit and not just a depth problem is if she's gets pain in her abdomen afterwards. Google it!! It's real. I googled it cause I thought it was bull to
Another position to consider would be to arch the back during penetration, with the use of a large pillow (I'm thinking a tube-shaped one from Liberator for example). This will help elongate the canal.
Think of it as the opposite of say... throwing your legs up in the air, which helps contract the canal. (a technique that's good for being with smaller men)