Is it normal that I'm still in a relationship with a meth addict

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago | pl

    And that's what keeps a lot of good people in sick relationships, that sometimes it's ok. You're far too young to be trapped in this situation and you're way out of your depth: get some support for yourself, I suggest Al-Anon, it helped me stop supporting (out of love and the occasional good times) the last addict I was involved with...... oh no, it did for that relationship but then I got too closely involved with a friend who was addicted to alcohol and gambling who still owes me thousands of dollars I'll never see again.

    I loved her very much but in the end I decided (and told her) I would continue to love her from a distance

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    • Lonely2
      7 years ago | pl

      Shes not trapped in the situation...shes trapped in her thinking which helped create the situation...her thinking wont change just because she breaks up with him

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago | pl

        No, but if she's not around him she may see the situation more clearly. Longterm you're quite right, unless the thinking changes the same pattern will keep repeating itself, that's why I suggested AlAnon

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