Is it normal that I'm still in a relationship with a meth addict

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  • _trillian
    7 years ago | pl

    Never looked at it from
    That aspect well this story was from a week ago and Saturday I went to visit with him and did this all day class to understand druggies very informative but I know I cannot leave him alone right now..

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      7 years ago | pl

      You need to. You are 19, you are young, you are innocent, you are naive, you are dealing with a guy who has allowed, yes, ALLOWED drugs to warp his mind and he will abuse you and use you until you are in just as deep of shit as he is.

      I've been in THIS rodeo before and I work with addicts for a living. As much as I love them, I have seen them drag down too many people for me to agree with your logic. Let the fucker hit rock bottom on his own. Leave him behind. You don't need this shit in your life. He selfishly fucked you over while knowing that you shouldn't be dealing with this right now. He is the villain here, you need to gtfo.

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      • _trillian
        7 years ago | pl

        You are so sweet. Like you're a realist and I respect it and you seem so smart I wish I was as strong just to drop him like I know I should

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        • NeuroNeptunian
          7 years ago | pl

          Thanks but it wasn't easy for me either. I waited until he became very legitimately dangerous to me before I realized that I was just the only person who was willing to take his negativity. Hopefully you realize it before he gets too bad.

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          • Lonely2
            7 years ago | pl

            You cant cure addiction or codependency , you can only get treatment and remission

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    • Steven Glansberg
      7 years ago | pl

      Look sweetie, your negroid instinct is telling you to do the wrong thing here (as usual) but you need to rise above and do the intelligent thing and walk away

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      • _trillian
        7 years ago | pl

        I'd feel like such a bitch knowing that I have his debit cards and car and his parents are in Europe it's like i put myself in this shit hole that I cannot get out of until his parents return I'm not going to ignore someone's phone calls when I have their cards and car

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        • Ellenna
          7 years ago | pl

          Then give him back his cards and his car and step back, for your own sake. You know it's the sensible self-preserving thing to do, so just do it

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        • Steven Glansberg
          7 years ago | pl

          Give him his stuff or do what you need to do legally to rid yourself of him. A person in todays society is not obligated to carry anyones burden. Its simple. If you need help call the police or a lawyer and figure it out

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    • Lonely2
      7 years ago | pl

      He's addicted to drugs and your addicted to him...I guess id rather be addicted to drugs, at least you can count on them

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago | pl

      Oh yes you can and if you care about yourself you should: has anything you've done so far changed his behaviour for the better or are you just supporting his addiction by "being there" for him? ALL addicts use other people, it's part of the addiction

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