Is it normal that I'm still in a relationship with a meth addict

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    7 years ago | pl

    Uhm, you need to leave this guy. I'm 24 myself and I remember being 19 and fucking stupid but you're too young to get involved in this shit.

    Seriously.

    You are only 19 years old. This isn't your battle to fight. This is a grown ass man and if he doesn't want to get his life together then let him walk his own path. You are waaaay to young to even be thinking of staying involved with this asshole.

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    • _trillian
      7 years ago | pl

      He wants me to believe in him and he says he won't be well rather can't be just friends with me.. His counselor said that this is a form of manipulation and he is holding me hostage within our relationship

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        7 years ago | pl

        His counselor is 10,0000% correct.

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        • Lonely2
          7 years ago | pl

          Codependants confuse pity and love...control and caring....they are usually as sick or sicker than the addict because they dont see their problem

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      • Lonely2
        7 years ago | pl

        Ask the counselor why you NEED to be a caretaker...how it builds your self esteem...why you feel inferior around healthy people

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago | pl

        That counsellor is spot on, listen to him/her

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    • Lonely2
      7 years ago | pl

      Addicts have a disease.....they are in pain as well and usually regret the things they do....codependants also are sick and need treatment or they just get in another codependant relationship..its the EXACT same addiction really...you swing from being the control freak caretaker to the addict....the cycle keeps repeating and can not be broken without treatment

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