Lol , sorry for saying this but your story is really complicated. First of all she cheated on you TWICE!!!!, and you instanly forgive her. Than she dumbs you for a totaly difrent guy. Well i don't know if I myth give you the right answer but maybe you should try to forget about her for awhile try hanging out with some other friends including other (girl) friendt the ones that really appreciate you and care about you.
The first time she cheated on me was when we were just together for 2 months. I broke up with her, but I wasn't too heart broken like I am now. A few weeks later she started apologizing and got my new number through numerous amount of people, we started talking again and ended up being together again.
The second time she cheated was three months after our 1 one year anniversary, I was angry this time and broke up with her again. Then after that that's when we had the movie love scene thing and went out again. After all that, as our relationship went on, I started loving her more and more.
Right now I feel lost in a way and tired. I have so many things to deal with like family and school. My parents think I'll end up failing like my two brothers and I'm trying really hard to not end up like them. It's so much pressure, I have no one supporting me at all and school is such a drag, but very important
Alright man listen. I kind of no a little how ur feeling and your situation because I'm sorto the same all my friends left because I wasted I year because I was down and depressed I felt abonden I thought nobody care about me. And the next (wich is this current year) every thing got worse!!!!. I thought I was gonna get a new start in life but what really happend is that I met many people who that I thought I left in my past. Especialy the girl that of my dreams who I wasted most of my life chasing. And were also now in the same class. But get this she's out of the blue she just found the man of her dreams wich is also in our class. And I'm not sure because of this I should stop loving her because she's really happy with him and he likes her to, and I just felt like I was getting in the way like there was no reason the live, and each day of school felt like hell!!. All her friends wich is the intire class don't like and since she was my best friend in elemantry school her intire big ass family knows me and geus what they all hate me too. And I used to cut class almost everyday just to avoid the pain or getting in the way. Yeah I know kind of patatic right? And so was left alone by everyone. But than I realise I wasn't the only one like this there were other people just like me so we became friends and started helping each other and hanging out more often etc. And know things are getting bettered very slowly my grades at school are inproving so that means I don't have to waste more of my life I have found good friends that support me and I just ignore the couple thing in my class yeah I know its not heavanly good but its starting. So just don't give up hang in there, find people whose been throught the same thing as you, keep being positive and youl find what you will truly make you happy and if not than remember that everyone can shape there own destiny. I'm not a that much into everything happends for a reason, well maybe a little lol, but I'm mostly a believer in anyone can shape there own destiny. And e remember when I was a kid I used to be happy but when I stopt e became miserble but now I'm back on my feet and I got e very good feeling about my futere. Oo and sorry for this very long post just wanted you to know that everyone has there dark times so just keep trying and doing for what makes you happy. Just concentrate on making some real friends that will help you in school and your eduction, and if you don't see your ex everyday just forget about her for know remember that girls love attention so if you keep putting up with her she will never stop. Just keep believing in yourself even if no one else will and keep trying and you'll be happy remember also that your not alone there are many people like you the only bitch part is that were all separated. Just keep trying and you'll be happy and good luck man.
What a coincidence, I've been ditching my class with her too and everyone in that class is mostly filled with her friends, which makes me feel uncomfortable cuss I only know\talk to one person in that class. I guess I'm pathetic too. :/
Thank you for your post I will certainly follow your advice which is trying to be happy, believing in myself and making new friends, since it's the only choice I have. :)
Is it normal that I'm still confused why she broke up with me?
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Lol , sorry for saying this but your story is really complicated. First of all she cheated on you TWICE!!!!, and you instanly forgive her. Than she dumbs you for a totaly difrent guy. Well i don't know if I myth give you the right answer but maybe you should try to forget about her for awhile try hanging out with some other friends including other (girl) friendt the ones that really appreciate you and care about you.
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It's okaay and sorry for the story being complicated but it's not like she cheated on me then forgave her at the same day.
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ok so tell me how is it then?
and how are you now?
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The first time she cheated on me was when we were just together for 2 months. I broke up with her, but I wasn't too heart broken like I am now. A few weeks later she started apologizing and got my new number through numerous amount of people, we started talking again and ended up being together again.
The second time she cheated was three months after our 1 one year anniversary, I was angry this time and broke up with her again. Then after that that's when we had the movie love scene thing and went out again. After all that, as our relationship went on, I started loving her more and more.
Right now I feel lost in a way and tired. I have so many things to deal with like family and school. My parents think I'll end up failing like my two brothers and I'm trying really hard to not end up like them. It's so much pressure, I have no one supporting me at all and school is such a drag, but very important
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Alright man listen. I kind of no a little how ur feeling and your situation because I'm sorto the same all my friends left because I wasted I year because I was down and depressed I felt abonden I thought nobody care about me. And the next (wich is this current year) every thing got worse!!!!. I thought I was gonna get a new start in life but what really happend is that I met many people who that I thought I left in my past. Especialy the girl that of my dreams who I wasted most of my life chasing. And were also now in the same class. But get this she's out of the blue she just found the man of her dreams wich is also in our class. And I'm not sure because of this I should stop loving her because she's really happy with him and he likes her to, and I just felt like I was getting in the way like there was no reason the live, and each day of school felt like hell!!. All her friends wich is the intire class don't like and since she was my best friend in elemantry school her intire big ass family knows me and geus what they all hate me too. And I used to cut class almost everyday just to avoid the pain or getting in the way. Yeah I know kind of patatic right? And so was left alone by everyone. But than I realise I wasn't the only one like this there were other people just like me so we became friends and started helping each other and hanging out more often etc. And know things are getting bettered very slowly my grades at school are inproving so that means I don't have to waste more of my life I have found good friends that support me and I just ignore the couple thing in my class yeah I know its not heavanly good but its starting. So just don't give up hang in there, find people whose been throught the same thing as you, keep being positive and youl find what you will truly make you happy and if not than remember that everyone can shape there own destiny. I'm not a that much into everything happends for a reason, well maybe a little lol, but I'm mostly a believer in anyone can shape there own destiny. And e remember when I was a kid I used to be happy but when I stopt e became miserble but now I'm back on my feet and I got e very good feeling about my futere. Oo and sorry for this very long post just wanted you to know that everyone has there dark times so just keep trying and doing for what makes you happy. Just concentrate on making some real friends that will help you in school and your eduction, and if you don't see your ex everyday just forget about her for know remember that girls love attention so if you keep putting up with her she will never stop. Just keep believing in yourself even if no one else will and keep trying and you'll be happy remember also that your not alone there are many people like you the only bitch part is that were all separated. Just keep trying and you'll be happy and good luck man.
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What a coincidence, I've been ditching my class with her too and everyone in that class is mostly filled with her friends, which makes me feel uncomfortable cuss I only know\talk to one person in that class. I guess I'm pathetic too. :/
Thank you for your post I will certainly follow your advice which is trying to be happy, believing in myself and making new friends, since it's the only choice I have. :)