Is it normal that i'm soooo mad at my dad

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Basically I've Ben brought up in a well off family. My mom is my best friend and so is my sister. My dad has put us all through hell. I've been brought up facing emotional abuse. My dad is also having one affair after the other alwaysss on his phone goes away on buisiness trips often. I love my mom very much and although it hurts me I was her rock which made me seek help with councelling. He's only been telling me n my sister how he's given his youth up for me n
Her like as if we took his life away and it hurts. I was also invoked in a really bad relationship. Now I'm with someone that brings the best out of me. Makes me feel amazing and has helped me not forget because I can never forget but has numbed me to the pain I've gone through and my dad only critisizes him and his famiy where I feel more of a
Family when I'm with my boyfriend and his parents then with him. I'm scared that god will punish me for feeling this way or that karma will get me because I'm so mad at him to the point I don't want to see him. We all are. Were so sick of it. my dad critisizes someone that has helped me through it all. He is great, he works he's in school he's a good looking guy with a big heart.

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  • Hoppycosh
    12 years ago

    I can't read this. Can you please take an English class, learn how to write, learn proper grammar, and come back in a year and re-write this over again? Thank you. Peace. Good bye.

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    • Tisgranum
      12 years ago

      You must illiterate if you can't read this. Weird that you even know how to write!

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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago

    If you believe in God or a god or anything..you need to believe that he's also not intervening in our everyday lives. If he was innocents wouldn't be punished regularly.

    You're dad is a dick. You need to distance yourself from his as it isn't healthy. I can't believe your mom would stay with him through infidelity. Either way...distance from him....if you're Christian..."honor thy mother and father" doesn't mean accept abuse from them.

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  • chezycheze
    12 years ago

    It sounds like you're pretty well justified in your feelings towards your father and your feelings towards your boyfriend. But, I think that you can deal with your father better if you let your anger go and think and talk with him calmly and reasonably. Also, I think its important to give people little opportunities to change and impress you. Very often, they won't take advantage of your opportunities but if you never give them any, then they have no chance of changing. Although, if he is abusive and/or breaking the law, then you should seek out professional help.

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  • mkolp75
    12 years ago

    The bible says to honor thy father, you don't have to like him

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    It may be normal, and yes your dad seems to be a a__ but he will always be your dad, and to someone he may be special. Not all adults are cut out to be great parents, look for the good parts of him, and move on to your future with another!
    But leave room somewhere in your heart for him later, much later

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    He's a man love! I guarantee he's not worried about how you feel, he's more worried about his next girlfriend or making up an excuse to get out. You carry on with your life and let him carry on with his. You are not responsible for his behavior nor can you continue to carry your mom on your back. She's put up with this for a long time - so it must suit her ok - it is not your problem, it's their relationship.

    I'm glad you've found someone that makes you happy. Just be thanksful he's not like your dad. Forget about your parents, they will work it out better if you are not in the middle of it.

    My pal used to hear her dad dragging her mom down the stairs by the hair every Saturday night and rape her. Her folks have now been married 50 years!!!

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