I have no emotional position here, but I'm framing the problem with social psychology. If attractiveness is quantified with facial symmetry, you have a somewhat objective basis, although not perfect, upon which to proceed. I believe there is a BBC series on "The Science of Attraction" that summarizes findings in this area.
Beauty is only subjective to a point. There are people that a higher percentage of the general population will find attractive than others. One good way to find out your level of attractiveness is at a dance club, if you see some guys with women rubbing themselves all over them but many of the women there are ignoring you, that's a good sign. When women get drunk and horny, they become 100% shallow and attatch themselves to the attractive and automatically block out anyone who isn't.
Anyway, it's wrong to discriminate in the workplace unless it's a job that requires a person to be attractive and in shape. I just happen to be one if the people who is not a fan of dudes I'm not into even approaching me for more than the time of day, and I have that right. It's no tragedy, and it ain't hard for people to know what league they're in to tell you the truth.
If a person thinks they wanna meet someone out of his or her league he or she ought to work to improve his or herself rather than getting butthurt and angry, because they are a 3 and some 8 or 9 won't give em the time of day.
So what, who cares. As long as people are friendly and or polite I can be friendly and or polite back. However, I've had more than my share of sexual harassment, and being hit on by creeps I wasn't interested in this life so I really don't want to be bothered with people who can't pick up on subtle cues of facial expression and body language that indicate that I would NEVER be interested in more than platonic friendship.
Those creepy types of guys don't care if the women they're getting hard up for may've had bad experiences with harassment, etc. They're only thinking with their hormones, the rest of themselves shut off. When women get really horny, they're the same. They rub themselves all over who they find attractive and automatically shut themselves off to anyone else. It's the hormones talking, when the hormones get high, they shut off all the other parts of the conscience, the reasoning, sympathy, understanding, etc. But, the one rule that stays solid, which some guys don't get, is that if you're one of the guys that are being blocked out by the horny hormone ridden women, you accept it and stay away from her. You don't try to "reason with her" or "try to get her to see past your appearance and see your inner beauty", because when her hormones are fired up, her mind will not process any of that info. It's animal instincts at that point, you can't fight it. And when you try to, you will always lose. And when the woman is all over the attractive guys (which is the pure animal instinct and raging hormones taking over her), and she's finding you unattractive and blocking you out, you HAVE TO leave it alone and stay away from her. If you don't, it's a 100% GUARANTEE that you'll be harassing her, and YOU WILL BE 100% IN THE WRONG. Those are just the rules. I've learned them as I've traveled down the road of life. I wish some of those creepy guys would learn them too.
You even have a bit of trouble here on-line where nobody can see you. Must be some kind of subtle animal magnetism of which people are only subliminally aware.
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In many ways ugly and beautiful are very subjective terms. I think you're making a bigger deal about what I said than it's worth.
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I have no emotional position here, but I'm framing the problem with social psychology. If attractiveness is quantified with facial symmetry, you have a somewhat objective basis, although not perfect, upon which to proceed. I believe there is a BBC series on "The Science of Attraction" that summarizes findings in this area.
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Beauty is only subjective to a point. There are people that a higher percentage of the general population will find attractive than others. One good way to find out your level of attractiveness is at a dance club, if you see some guys with women rubbing themselves all over them but many of the women there are ignoring you, that's a good sign. When women get drunk and horny, they become 100% shallow and attatch themselves to the attractive and automatically block out anyone who isn't.
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Yep.
I've seen it.
Anyway, it's wrong to discriminate in the workplace unless it's a job that requires a person to be attractive and in shape. I just happen to be one if the people who is not a fan of dudes I'm not into even approaching me for more than the time of day, and I have that right. It's no tragedy, and it ain't hard for people to know what league they're in to tell you the truth.
If a person thinks they wanna meet someone out of his or her league he or she ought to work to improve his or herself rather than getting butthurt and angry, because they are a 3 and some 8 or 9 won't give em the time of day.
So what, who cares. As long as people are friendly and or polite I can be friendly and or polite back. However, I've had more than my share of sexual harassment, and being hit on by creeps I wasn't interested in this life so I really don't want to be bothered with people who can't pick up on subtle cues of facial expression and body language that indicate that I would NEVER be interested in more than platonic friendship.
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Those creepy types of guys don't care if the women they're getting hard up for may've had bad experiences with harassment, etc. They're only thinking with their hormones, the rest of themselves shut off. When women get really horny, they're the same. They rub themselves all over who they find attractive and automatically shut themselves off to anyone else. It's the hormones talking, when the hormones get high, they shut off all the other parts of the conscience, the reasoning, sympathy, understanding, etc. But, the one rule that stays solid, which some guys don't get, is that if you're one of the guys that are being blocked out by the horny hormone ridden women, you accept it and stay away from her. You don't try to "reason with her" or "try to get her to see past your appearance and see your inner beauty", because when her hormones are fired up, her mind will not process any of that info. It's animal instincts at that point, you can't fight it. And when you try to, you will always lose. And when the woman is all over the attractive guys (which is the pure animal instinct and raging hormones taking over her), and she's finding you unattractive and blocking you out, you HAVE TO leave it alone and stay away from her. If you don't, it's a 100% GUARANTEE that you'll be harassing her, and YOU WILL BE 100% IN THE WRONG. Those are just the rules. I've learned them as I've traveled down the road of life. I wish some of those creepy guys would learn them too.
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I hate those guys.
You even have a bit of trouble here on-line where nobody can see you. Must be some kind of subtle animal magnetism of which people are only subliminally aware.
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I don't even know. I think people just like to mess with people who say they don't want to put up with bullshit.