There are a lot of really nasty comments here. Don't take them to heart.
Most of them are kids with issues. It seem that they come to a "is it normal" site because they feel different in a bad way, and tend to take out their problems on other people.
If you're a genuine poster, then I really hope you sort this out. It's a difficult situation.
I wanna talk about two things. Firstly, your husband. Second, about this other guy.
Your husband. My guess is that you don't want to be with him. If it is bad, you should leave.
It can be horrifyling difficult and scary and you can give yourself so many excuses to stay, but it might be for the best. There is sometimes one tiny hope that people hold onto to keep themselves in a relaitonship, but it is usually wrong.
I say it straight. Leave him. Clear your head. Get a fresh perspective on things and pick yourself up. Look after yourself for a while and feel the freedom of standing on your own two feet.
This other guy. Well, he's married. There's another woman in the picture and she might not deserve the pain that you both could cause her. If you're single again, I'd recommend not seeing him for a while.
Hook up with someone new. Even just for a night to get that whole hunger out of the system for a ittle while, just long enough to give you space to breath and a moment to think a little straight about things.
Either way, it seems that you need your own space for a while.
Is it normal that I'm seeking out an affair?
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There are a lot of really nasty comments here. Don't take them to heart.
Most of them are kids with issues. It seem that they come to a "is it normal" site because they feel different in a bad way, and tend to take out their problems on other people.
If you're a genuine poster, then I really hope you sort this out. It's a difficult situation.
I wanna talk about two things. Firstly, your husband. Second, about this other guy.
Your husband. My guess is that you don't want to be with him. If it is bad, you should leave.
It can be horrifyling difficult and scary and you can give yourself so many excuses to stay, but it might be for the best. There is sometimes one tiny hope that people hold onto to keep themselves in a relaitonship, but it is usually wrong.
I say it straight. Leave him. Clear your head. Get a fresh perspective on things and pick yourself up. Look after yourself for a while and feel the freedom of standing on your own two feet.
This other guy. Well, he's married. There's another woman in the picture and she might not deserve the pain that you both could cause her. If you're single again, I'd recommend not seeing him for a while.
Hook up with someone new. Even just for a night to get that whole hunger out of the system for a ittle while, just long enough to give you space to breath and a moment to think a little straight about things.
Either way, it seems that you need your own space for a while.
Get out. That's my best advice.