It's probably best to look into the relationship you're currently in and decide whether or not it's worth continuing before you run off and attempt to start something with somebody else.
It's the least you can do for someone you've been married to for 20 years. Show some respect to your partner, explain your issues, sort it out - whether it means moving on or finding a way to make it work - and THEN look into other relationships.
If you act on this now, you're only going to hurt your husband, and likely you're going to hurt yourself. Think how you'd feel.
Also, the guy you're interested in has a family, and is also married? It's like the bad-decision-athon 2013 has occurred and you're pining for first place. The only thing that lies down that path is hurting a whole bunch of people and feeling terrible yourself. All for what... jumping the gun and getting a little thrill you could get later on down the road, withOUT hurting everyone involved?
Is it normal that I'm seeking out an affair?
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It's probably best to look into the relationship you're currently in and decide whether or not it's worth continuing before you run off and attempt to start something with somebody else.
It's the least you can do for someone you've been married to for 20 years. Show some respect to your partner, explain your issues, sort it out - whether it means moving on or finding a way to make it work - and THEN look into other relationships.
If you act on this now, you're only going to hurt your husband, and likely you're going to hurt yourself. Think how you'd feel.
Also, the guy you're interested in has a family, and is also married? It's like the bad-decision-athon 2013 has occurred and you're pining for first place. The only thing that lies down that path is hurting a whole bunch of people and feeling terrible yourself. All for what... jumping the gun and getting a little thrill you could get later on down the road, withOUT hurting everyone involved?
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I agree, except that genetally one can't sit down and have the communication you suggested with someone who truly has borderline personality disorder.