Is it normal that i'm scared to have sex

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HI, I'm 21 and am still a virgin for a few reasons. For one I have yet to have sex with a guy because I'm scared of the reaction I'll get towards my large labia. Even more scared that the guy will go around telling other people about it. Furthermore, I'm waiting till I'm in a serious relationship to lose it to someone. This seems to be taking a long time. In the mean time I've kind of fooled around with a few guys but have yet to be really turned on by any of them other than my ex, which I find weird..

Really what I'm asking is, are large labias/embarrasing body parts more common than I think. if I should go for it click normal.If you would get turned off click not normal..

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  • LIGHTHOUSE
    9 years ago

    Don't worry sweetie for having large labia. It is fairly common and normal. Many females have this sort of thing. Do not get embarassed by this silly things. Love is a emotional and psycological factor which comes straight from heart. If someone love you from bottom of heart of heart he will not be disappointed by your labia. Everyone have their own fetishes and large labia is one of them; they get turn on and very erotic to them. So enjoy life

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  • roadflasher
    9 years ago

    ALL labia are different. They're almost like fingerprints. Look at some porn (pictures, not videos) and see the variety of labia that women have.

    My wife has fairly large labia, and I absolutely love them. They are incredibly soft, and that texture alone is exciting during sex.

    Two things you should NOT do, however...

    1 - Do not even think of getting surgery to minimize them. Many women complain of pain for months or even years after doing it, and it's usually for no reason at all except their own perceptions of body image.

    2 - Do NOT have sex with any guy that you think would even have the remote idea of telling his friends about the experience. Sex is about trust more than it is about the physical act. Make the guy work for it. If he gets tired of waiting and dumps you, be grateful it ended that way.

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  • ilovetoiletrolls
    9 years ago

    Seriously? Find Mr Right before you do anything as he won't even care and you'll feel that immediately without having to ask this question. One of my gorgeous friends was a virgin by choice waiting for the right guy as she only found superficial jerks and when she found him, she did it and she said she didn't even think about anything, it just happened, etc.

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  • kennag123
    9 years ago

    I had the exact same fear, but honestly my boyfriend loves my larger than average labia, he sees nothing at all wrong with it

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  • MonchichiLuvsu
    9 years ago

    A larger/elongated labia is not uncommon at all. It doesn't make you any less attractive. I would be surprised someone even noticed, let alone thought less of you for it. I'm not saying you should do anything you're not ready for, but don't let THAT be the thing that stops you. Do whatever you want, whenever you want, with whomever you want. No judgment here.

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