Is it normal that i'm scared to have sex?

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Okay, I know it's totally normal to be afraid of having sex for the first time, especially for girls. But I'm not a virgin. I've had sex plenty of times with my ex. After we broke up two years ago, I've been afraid to have sex with anyone. I don't even know why I'm so "scared". I know plenty of people that would have sex with me, so it's not that I feel unwanted or anything. I just don't know. Am I being stupid or what?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago | pl

    You obviously have hang ups about your break up with your ex. I think you can either go have sex or deal with your problems, then go have sex, so why not skip all the psycho drama and just go get laid?

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  • lc1988
    9 years ago | pl

    It's hard to be with someone else. I dated my ex for over 3 years and when that came to an end...I dk..it's just hard to start from square one after being comfortable with someone for so long. I dk if I'm making any sense..it's not that you're hung up on your ex but just starting from scratch and figuring out what that person likes and doesn't like. Blah. But it's worth it :)

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  • bananapie
    9 years ago | pl

    I kind of feel the same way.. I used to love sex but now I'm scared and even feel sick when thinking about doing it with anyone

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  • SENIORIST
    9 years ago | pl

    well seems you need DOCTOR touch pls contact me
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