Is it normal that i'm scared to give my bf a blowjob

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  • There is really nothing to be afraid of.

    Start off slow, in that you could give him oral for just a few minutes before you have sex. Doing that as a kind of foreplay a few times will give you some practice for giving him a real blow job until he blows his load.

    Tips:
    - Don't have a dry mouth or bad breath.
    - Don't ever scrape your teeth on his cock unless he asks you specifically to do so.
    - Keep a slight pressure around his shaft with your lips.
    - Hold his shaft at the base in your hand and move it up and down in sync with moving your mouth.
    - When you are on the upstroke with your mouth, quickly slide your tongue around the head of his erection without removing your lips/mouth before going back down.
    - If your gag-reflex is stimulated, you don't necessarily have to stop, just start swallowing at the back of your throat and the feeling should subside.
    - Every now and then, slowly try to take as much of his length in your mouth as you can without gagging.
    - You could also try cupping his balls a bit with your other hand.
    - Tie your hair back so that he can see your face while you do it and make eye-contact with him occasionally.
    - Be open to his suggestions about what feels best to him.

    Good luck and have fun. :)

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