Is it normal that i'm scared to give my bf a blowjob

We have been together for 2 years now and has helped me threw a lot. My friends and I where playing truth or dare when my mum was out and they asked me if I have ever given him a blowjob. Even though we have had sex plenty of times im scared to give him one because he might not like it or I do something wrong D;

Is It Normal?
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  • All of the advice Squirrel-Whisperer stated is quite helpful, but if you don't have the confidence to half that stuff, just remember the most important stuff, which are her first four tips.
    As you do get more comfortable, come back to the list.

    Trust that your boyfriend will love it when you suck his dick.

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    • Ooops! I did get a bit carried away with the list, didn't I.

      I agree with you, the first four tips are a good starting-point. Good thing you pointed it out.

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      • Your list was very well thought out, though. I'm sure the whole thing will be appreciated by her when she gets to that point. =)

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  • There is really nothing to be afraid of.

    Start off slow, in that you could give him oral for just a few minutes before you have sex. Doing that as a kind of foreplay a few times will give you some practice for giving him a real blow job until he blows his load.

    Tips:
    - Don't have a dry mouth or bad breath.
    - Don't ever scrape your teeth on his cock unless he asks you specifically to do so.
    - Keep a slight pressure around his shaft with your lips.
    - Hold his shaft at the base in your hand and move it up and down in sync with moving your mouth.
    - When you are on the upstroke with your mouth, quickly slide your tongue around the head of his erection without removing your lips/mouth before going back down.
    - If your gag-reflex is stimulated, you don't necessarily have to stop, just start swallowing at the back of your throat and the feeling should subside.
    - Every now and then, slowly try to take as much of his length in your mouth as you can without gagging.
    - You could also try cupping his balls a bit with your other hand.
    - Tie your hair back so that he can see your face while you do it and make eye-contact with him occasionally.
    - Be open to his suggestions about what feels best to him.

    Good luck and have fun. :)

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  • Open your mouth, insert penis. He will be happy. I can say with absolute certainty that whatever you do from that point on, he will enjoy.

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  • Enthusiasm goes a long way. As long as you avoid using your teeth, just go down there and play around. You'll figure out what he likes, and being a guy, he'll probably enjoy most things as long as you're into it.

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