It is simple, to overcome you social anxity start small. You can start by using a mirrior or an image of a female (shoulders and up) to try to get used to it. Then after you feel practiced enough go to a video chat site, but block the image of the girl.
Preferably explain that you wish to overcome your social anxity but you mist first learn to talk to women she will understand.
Now the next step is a huge jump but face to face interactions are next, a convention is a great starting place because everyone there will have the same interest.
Don't be afraid to break the ice, you can releive any akward tention by asking about herself or commenting on what ever fandom she is in (if any)
But most important don't confuse passion for perversion. Just because a chick is hot doesn't mean she is right for you, the only reason they say nice guys finish last is because the person they were dating share little common ground.
IIN that I'm obsessed with porn but I'm a 34-year old virgin?
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It is simple, to overcome you social anxity start small. You can start by using a mirrior or an image of a female (shoulders and up) to try to get used to it. Then after you feel practiced enough go to a video chat site, but block the image of the girl.
Preferably explain that you wish to overcome your social anxity but you mist first learn to talk to women she will understand.
Now the next step is a huge jump but face to face interactions are next, a convention is a great starting place because everyone there will have the same interest.
Don't be afraid to break the ice, you can releive any akward tention by asking about herself or commenting on what ever fandom she is in (if any)
But most important don't confuse passion for perversion. Just because a chick is hot doesn't mean she is right for you, the only reason they say nice guys finish last is because the person they were dating share little common ground.
Best of luck man.