I have this same problem but I'm a guy and I dunno what to do. I'm defiantly not gay, but there is this guy I really like, I'm only friends with him at the moment but I have fantasies of being bestest friends, like brothers. He used to be someone I hung around with but then I realised how cool he was just by looking at him. And I'm really lonely so when I was sad he used to hug me and I really liked that. Then I decided that he'd be my best friend and he's what I want more than anything in the world. I can't stop thinking about him. Even his name makes me smile. We used to be best friends but I started copying him and stalking him on facebook and then he fell out with me, it took me ten weeks to be friends with him again, but now I think he's avoiding me, we haven spoken in person for ages now and I miss him...
This describes my current situation exactly, and I feel like can't do this anymore. It's been 5 months since he last picked up the phone to call me and it's been one month since I called him and it just hurts. I keep going over every conversation we ever had just to try to find something missing that could help me revive our friendship. We're not fighting now, but I think he might be bored with me. Also, about 7 months ago he met another friend and I think he prefers him to me, and I get the message that I'll never be good enough and that I'm replaceable. If this is how friendship is, then what's love like??!!! I believe he's avoiding me too. can we talk? You're the only one I can talk about this with...please.
Is it normal that I'm obsessed with my friend?
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I have this same problem but I'm a guy and I dunno what to do. I'm defiantly not gay, but there is this guy I really like, I'm only friends with him at the moment but I have fantasies of being bestest friends, like brothers. He used to be someone I hung around with but then I realised how cool he was just by looking at him. And I'm really lonely so when I was sad he used to hug me and I really liked that. Then I decided that he'd be my best friend and he's what I want more than anything in the world. I can't stop thinking about him. Even his name makes me smile. We used to be best friends but I started copying him and stalking him on facebook and then he fell out with me, it took me ten weeks to be friends with him again, but now I think he's avoiding me, we haven spoken in person for ages now and I miss him...
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This describes my current situation exactly, and I feel like can't do this anymore. It's been 5 months since he last picked up the phone to call me and it's been one month since I called him and it just hurts. I keep going over every conversation we ever had just to try to find something missing that could help me revive our friendship. We're not fighting now, but I think he might be bored with me. Also, about 7 months ago he met another friend and I think he prefers him to me, and I get the message that I'll never be good enough and that I'm replaceable. If this is how friendship is, then what's love like??!!! I believe he's avoiding me too. can we talk? You're the only one I can talk about this with...please.