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Alright, I'm 21 and I am married. Me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant for the past like 5 or 6 months. We have sex almost every night more than once a night. We don't use any type of protection so is it normal that I'm not pregnant yet?
There are times of the month where you are most fertile. Rather than have sex all the time, if you have sex more often when you're most fertile and less often when you're not, you might increase your chances. He's only got a certain amount of swimmers. There's no point throwing them into a pool with no water when if they waited a while, it'd be full.
Everyone gave you the fertility talk, so i'm not going to do that lol But I heared doing it doggie style helps, as well as the missionary position with your bottom half propped up with a pillow. Don't stress over it to much, getting pregnant is in fact, not very easy. Enjoy the time time you have now to enjoy sex :)
If you want to get pregnant and it's not working... try talking to your doctor.
It could be something medically wrong, or it could just be something that's easy to fix.
Without knowing more all I can suggest is, if your hubby wears briefs, have him switch to boxers. How does that help? Sometimes body temperature can affect how viable sperm are. So if his testicles are just at the threshold, then switching to boxers might help lower their temperature enough to get things moving in the right direction. ;)
Oh, and by the pregnancy test kits there should be some ovulation kits too. Those will tell you when you're most ripe for pregnancy. The other option is to take your temperature every morning at the same time. IIRC your resting temperature will drop right when you start ovulating, and then rise back up.
http://fertilityplus.com/faq/bbt/coverline.jpg here's a good example
Is there a reason your just wanting to totally screw up your time of life where your carefree and reckless. 21 your still a kid yourself. Get your dumb ass on birth control and you and your husband grab the world by the balls and have some fun until you are 30. Work hard, save and live life before you decide to totally f-k it up with kids. Good luck sheep!
We have been together for 5 years. We have had our fun. If I wasn't ready to be a mother I would be on birth control but I am so I'm not. I'm already married and I'm ready to be a grown up. I don't think kids would f*** up anything and I want a lot of kids so I'm not planning on waiting.