Men and women are different. Women are more attuned to what they hear and often interpret the lack of verbal affection as a sign that your feelings have changed. Men don't really need this.
However, if you do truly love her and want to make her happy, then it wouldn't hurt to know what she needs and to act on it, even if you don't feel you need it yourself.
There are two of you in the relationship. If you want to keep it as a relationship, you've got to do what we wants as much as you do what you want.
And vice versa, of course. Women often do things which drive us men crazy. We're allowed to say something about that too.
Is it normal that I'm not expressive?
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Men and women are different. Women are more attuned to what they hear and often interpret the lack of verbal affection as a sign that your feelings have changed. Men don't really need this.
However, if you do truly love her and want to make her happy, then it wouldn't hurt to know what she needs and to act on it, even if you don't feel you need it yourself.
There are two of you in the relationship. If you want to keep it as a relationship, you've got to do what we wants as much as you do what you want.
And vice versa, of course. Women often do things which drive us men crazy. We're allowed to say something about that too.